No, You Don't Love Him

K so I have this friend. More like acquaintance. And he's really friendly and nice, but never lets anyone get really close, like close enough to be a real friend. It's really weird. And he's a good-looking guy, young (23) and rides a motorcycle, does all the young-guy stuff, etc. And he's single. And there are all these girls who post on his facebook all the time saying stuff like "Oh hey honey how are you?" "Miss you babe!" "Love you handsome!" And all this other stuff. Combined with the fact that they have trashy pictures of themselves up there . . . well it really bothered me. This guy claims to be a Christian. But honestly he doesn't do a thing to act like it. It's more than the girls' comments. But that's just what's getting to me. Seriously what right do they have to say that to a guy? It's so weird! I guess he just has different convictions than I do about it. If guys were talking to me like that I'd delete them off facebook in a heartbeat and never talk to them again. They do NOT have the right to say "I love you" or call me "babe" or "honey." Those are things my husband and ONLY my husband gets to say to me. Otherwise it's not special. It's just something people say. I don't ever want "I love you" to be just something people say to me. And plus, THEY DON'T LOVE HIM. Would you take a bullet for him? No, it'd mess up your bikini tan. Ok. You don't love him. You love how he looks. You love the fact that he rides a motorcycle. You love that he's friendly. Great. But you don't love him.

Grr. Girls make me mad sometimes.



Leah